Contacting and Communication with your Goddess - Dominatrix

Contacting and Communication with your Goddess - Dominatrix

Contacting and Communication with your Goddess – Dominatrix

 

So…….you’ve decided to take the step (again) to visit a Professional Dominatrix.

The internet is at your (so to speak) feet and most of the time the choice is a plenty.

Congratulations! Put on your seat-belt, this is going to be one hell of a ride.

 

It is of importance that you know “roughly” what you are looking for. Are you into humiliation, are you a masochist? Or are you looking for more sensual and erotic play?

The variation and kinks are endless, and so is the selection of Goddesses.

 

You’ll soon learn that all of the ladies you see, whether it be on google and their website, Fetlife, twitter or any other platform, have their own sense of play, kinks and fetishes.

After scrolling some more, you’ve found one or maybe more, that really stand out and you decide to send them a message.

We know you are very excited, and that you’ve been lusting, lurking and dreaming about us for a long time.

But there is only one chance to make a proper introduction and first impression, so take a deep breath and think with your upper-head for a second.

  1. A proper introductions. Personally, I don’t even bother to read if your message starts with “ Hi/yo sexy/gorgeous etc” . The introduction sets the tone for our dynamic and communication, so make it well.
  2. Tell us a bit about yourself. We do not care about your hair color or height. We want to know what your kinks are, your experience if relevant and what you seem to be looking for.
  3. Keep it nice and to the point. We understand that you are very excited to share all these details of all these fantasies that have been running in your mind. Those may be discussed upon meeting, so don’t make your message a half essay long.
  4. If you have any health concerns, you need to inform us. We are going to be involved in some intense play and this is the base of having a good session with trust; knowing what to do and what not within healthy possibilities.
  5. Respect our time, say Please and Thank you Mistress. A bare minimum.
  6. If your kinks include some Financial play, such as Financial Domination, Blackmail etc, include a Tribute with your message to show sincerity.
  7. Your. Research; Asking us where we are from, or what color our hair is, will not look good on you. This information can be found in our BIO or website, so make the effort.
  8. NEVER negotiate on rates or ask for a discount. This is not a market, nor are we a product. If it happens to be so, that you lack specific finances at the moment, thank the Mistress for her time. Keep saving up. Or find a Mistress within another price range.
  9. Be open minded, listen well and above all: communicate. We are very experienced and trained, but we are no mind readers.
  10. And last but not least, Enjoy, your dreams are about to come true!

 

2 Responses

    Very well written Ms. Sovietmercedes. Concise, to the point & not demeaning to inexperienced potential slaves.

    I still consider myself one of those despite delighting experiences with several, experienced dominate ladys.
    There is always more to learn.

      Very good point, every one is always learning and growing. I feel this is the most important of all, especially within this dynamic.

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